A calmer way to separate.
Ruth Schocken Katz, mediator
Divorce and Separation Mediation in London
Mediation helps you make practical decisions about children, finances and the family home without a lengthy court process and expensive fees.
I’m Ruth Schocken Katz, a London-based Family Mediation Council (FMC) registered family mediator and EMCC-accredited Senior Coach, offering in-person sessions in Camden, London, and secure online mediation.
What Mediation Is (And Who It Helps)
Mediation is a structured, confidential process where an impartial mediator helps you and the other person talk through the decisions that come with separation.
It is designed for people who want open dialogue, a fair outcome, clearer communication and a practical plan for what happens next.
You stay in control of the decisions. As a divorce mediator, I guide the conversation, keep it balanced, and help you explore workable options without pressure.
Mediation is a highly successful way of helping couples resolve disputes, enabling complete or partial agreements in 70% of cases.
Why Mediation?
What You Can Cover in Mediation
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Children and parenting arrangements (day-to-day routine, holidays, communication and decision making).
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Finances and the family home (financial disclosure, proposals, and next steps for formalising agreements).
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How you will manage change (new partners, moving home, schooling and future reviews).
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Other important matters like arrangements for family pets.
Why Choose Mediation Instead of Court
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Mediation is person-centred, private and confidential, so sensitive family matters are not played out in public.
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Mediation is typically quicker and more cost-effective than lengthy solicitor correspondence and court hearings. Mediation cost is typically less than £1000 per person, compared with more than £14,000 through the UK courts.
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Mediation is more flexible, available in both in-person and online formats.
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Mediation places the children’s needs at its core and is more likely to support a workable co-parenting relationship.
Why Work with Me
My professional mediation training, combined with a coaching accreditation, helps people stay steady and heard during emotionally difficult conversations. In my work with separating couples, I bring a calm presence, clear structure and an ability to keep sessions focused on progress.
Family mediator registered with the Family Mediation Council (FMC).
Member of the Family Mediation Association and the College of Mediators.
Senior Coach, accredited by the European Mentoring and Coaching Council (EMCC).
Based in London, with sessions at Camden Therapy and online by Zoom.
LET'S CONNECT
How It Works (At a Glance)
1. Free 15-minute call: a brief, confidential chat to understand what you need and talk through next steps.
2. MIAM: an individual Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting for each person (45 to 60 minutes).
3. Joint mediation sessions: typically, 1.5 hours per session, working through property, children, finances and practical arrangements.
4. Outcome documents: a written summary of proposals (and financial summary where relevant), so you can take the next steps to formalise agreements.
Quick Mediation FAQs
How much does mediation cost?
Most people will pay between £600 and £1,000 per person, including the cost of the MIAM and any outcome documents. Compared with the average cost of a divorce through the courts in the UK, which is currently more than £14,000 according to the FMC, family mediation is a much more cost-effective route to resolution.
Do we both have to agree to mediation?
Mediation is voluntary. You can only proceed if both of you are willing. A MIAM helps each person understand the process and decide whether it feels suitable.
Is mediation legally binding?
The proposals you reach in mediation are not automatically legally binding. Many people take the written summary to a solicitor who can draft a consent order or agreement, where appropriate.
Where do sessions take place?
In-person sessions are available in person at Camden Therapy or online via Zoom. A hybrid approach can also work well for busy schedules.